Dating at Singles Events: Take Action and Meet Compatibility
I’m not a mass-produced gullible guy, lethargically satisfied by being solo on a Friday night. I’d bet you have never read me talk much about great dating and companionship. That’s just me for ya.
Helplessness is an avoidable quality and intentionally neglected in my man programming (man-gramming?). But, I’ll level with you, I had no choice but to escape from a 3-year cohabitation which meant a lot for us but essentially wasn’t meant to be. Therefore somone might go on record saying it may have been a while since I was dating. I can’t find the great expectations for dating I used to enjoy.
Single life has had its perks so far. One thing is for sure, I don’t know how to lounge about, peacefully devowering Battlestar Galactica episodes off the torrents. The number one cause of this bout of weekend dating boredom? This isn’t college, and there are fewer available women.
My take-no-holds hunting friend, Jim, who will never have dating lameness, sympathized because he is currently shooting from the same blind as I am. He signed up for Great Expectations Phoenix. I enjoy chatting up delightful gals around my age. Go figure, I put myself on a plan and joined.
Here’s the deal, you wouldn’t grovel by not having plans if you haven’t picked up the phone. Like my old baseball coach Terry Jennings snuck into conversation when his wife wasn’t looking, “There’s other fish in the bowl, turbo.”
Coach was crazy, and a little out of touch. Regardles, the old guy was on the money without being self-righteous. He always made us laugh. The amazing series of singles events in Dallas here might’ve short circuted the gipper’s shiny bald head.
At yesterday’s Great Expectations dating events I breezily chatted with a few accomplished and appealing women that hold my eye. I truthfully had a carefree night with dozens of intelligently remarkable singles. I ducked out of the mixer a little early with an exchange of digits, and even came across some professional acquaintances for my job. I’m impressed.
Put yourself in the play. Can’t be happy if you don’t try. Take it from me, at least have great expectations for your dating life.
Frankly,
Caleb
